The Atheist's Value
System Is Arbitrary
Bill Skiba
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From: "Bill/Audra Skiba"
To: "Positive Atheism" <editor@positiveatheism.org>
Sent: September 15, 2001 8:13 AM
Subject: Are There Values In Religion That We, As Atheists, Are Missing 9930
If there is no God, then what is good and what is evil? When forming a value system, the atheist is left arbitrarily distinguishing between good and evil in his or her own mind. The atheist may have a moral code, but he or she is unable to justify that moral code.
Bill
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From: "Positive Atheism" <editor@positiveatheism.org>
To:
Subject: Re: Are There Values In Religion That We, As Atheists, Are Missing 9930
Date: September 15, 2001 9:18 AM
the atheist is left arbitrarily distinguishing between good and evil in his or her own mind.
How is this arbitrary? Explain.
Then explain how is is any less arbitrary than choosing a religious faith. What if I decided to become a Christian or a Muslim or a Hindu or a Sufi? Explain to me how that would not be arbitrary.
Finally, why is it that you omit consensus from this discussion, portraying the atheist as acting entirely alone in making moral decisions? Did you leave this crucial element out of your discussion so as to make the atheistic position easier to refute?
The atheist may have a moral code, but he or she is unable to justify that moral code.
Interesting: I've never had a problem justifying any moral position that I have ever taken. Just ask any of my friends: they think I go to too great lengths justifying what I do and say, and often suggest that I back off and relax. No. I have thought long and hard about what is right and wrong for me to do, and have spent no small portion of my life learning the various ways to determine the best course of action when presented with new, unprecedented choices.
The Bible, for example, does not help us make unprecedented choices, but gives us a list of dos and don'ts. If a choice comes along that is not on that list, the Bible believer is out of luck -- unless she or he uses the same system that any atheist uses: human reason.
Meanwhile, what if the Bible, for example, commands us to dash infants against the rocks? Is the Bible believer obligated to obey this commandment?
You see, Biblical morality is not morality but obedience: you do what you're told. The Bible believer is not called upon to justify her or his actions, but simply to obey. If the Bible believer obeys, she or he will be rewarded with future bliss (or so the story goes -- I don't believe it for a minute). If the Bible believer does not obey, she or he will be punished with future misery. So, the Bible believer's "justification" ends up becoming the self-serving desire to enjoy pleasure and avoid pain. Hmmm. Seems I've heard that one leveled against atheists!
However, if a human is placed in a position to have to decide right from wrong without a list of rules, the human cannot but justify his or her choices -- and this justification naturally comes before the decision.
Fortunately for all of us, most Bible believers do not practice biblical morality, but practice morality the same way most atheists practice it: by first thinking through the possible consequences of various choices and making the choice which the human in question thinks is the best one.
Personally, I try to make choices that will do the least amount of overall harm -- not necessarily to myself, but overall, period. For example, if falling on a live grenade would prevent a large device from exploding and killing hundreds of people, I would fall on the live grenade, killing only myself. I look for the least amount of overall harm; all things being relatively equal (which they usually are in my life), I will then look after myself because I can only be of service to others if my physical needs are met.
I used to try to make choices that I thought would accomplish the most good, but have since rejected that model as the one I favor (although I sometimes find myself in the position of having to use it). But I find that I must be careful because any good also contains harms. So, I always consider the amount of harm possible in any choice, and if I see no great potential for harm in any of the choices I'm considering, I will switch gears and look for the greatest good.
Therefore, I want you to justify your claim that it is impossible for an atheist to justify the code of ethics which she or he uses.
Cliff Walker
Positive Atheism Magazine
Six years of service to
people with no reason to believe
From: "Bill Skiba"
To: "Positive Atheism" <editor@positiveatheism.org>
Sent: October 15, 2001 2:03 PM
Subject: Re: Morals and atheism
Cliff
This is the response I sent a while back. We got side-tracked and the conversation never went beyond this email:
I am interested in your views on morality and must admit that I did not realize that there is consensus in a moral code among atheists. If you have a list of values or a moral code that you believe in and share this belief with other atheists, I would be interested in reading it. Reading your email, I'll assume that preventing harm to others is considered good according to your beliefs. The example you used was falling on a live grenade to protect others from harm. My question to you is why would this be considered good? If this life is all there is, I would be inclined to run for it and prevent harm to myself. Why would I be morally obligated to fall on that grenade?
You also talked about looking for the "greatest good" in the absence of potential harm, if you could define "greatest good" to me I feel I may better understand your position.
Thanks for your time,
Bill
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From: "Positive Atheism Magazine" <editor@positiveatheism.org>
To: "Bill Skiba"
Subject: Re: Morals and atheism
Date: October 15, 2001 3:54 PM
In looking at my records, I have no response from you after my challenge that you substantiate your claim that "The atheist may have a moral code, but ... is unable to justify that moral code."
As for a list of codes, I don't have one of those. I use a method. I have certain "game rules" that apply, for example, when guests visit my home or which must be observed for me to be willing to continue my part of a relationship. But I don't have a list of dos and don'ts or a list of good and evil. This is because each situation involves a choice: it is that choice, given each individual situation, that makes morality, not a list of dos and don'ts.
I ... must admit that I did not realize that there is consensus in a moral code among atheists.
I merely mentioned that working in consensus with others is among the many tools available to me with which to make moral decisions. I said nothing about there being any consensus among atheists regarding moral codes in general, except that any moral codes come, naturally, from humans (or extraterrestrials, among those atheists who believe Benign Space Brothers watch after us -- or even created us).
Why would I be morally obligated to fall on that grenade?
I merely told you what I would do. I did not carry it any further than that.
Who said anything about moral obligation? Why do you read your own values into what I say, rather than take note that what I said was a complete statement? I only said certain things and left other things unsaid (perhaps for a reason? perhaps because they do not correspond to my views?).
True, this is my only life, but extending it for a few more moments will not allow me to keep it. In the end, nothing I do will allow me to keep my life, so I might as well do the most with what little life I get to live.
When my life is over, it will be, for me, as if I never lived at all: it will be, for me, nothing. All that will be left will be what I will have left behind after I have ceased to exist: my words and my works. Even those will not last much longer than I did.
Knowing this would compel me to fall on the grenade. I don't think I could live with myself having "run for it," thereby letting so many others come to harm when the simple act of falling on the grenade would have prevented all that. Knowing that I will never get to keep my life, being able to extend it for a few more moments would mean nothing to me. It has been other people's "turn" in the past and it will be still other people's "turn" in the future, but at that moment, it would be my "turn."
I'd bet that under similar circumstances, you would fall on the grenade, too. And during those final moments while you lie there, adjusting the position of your body to absorb as much of the impact as possible, sometime, in-between those last two ticks of the timer, the thought might occur to you that this is the only life you get. And if that thought did occur to you, I doubt this would make much difference to you in the face of saving numerous lives by your act.
This may just be human nature, but I doubt that even knowing that this is your only life would change your behavior when it comes to sacrificing yourself for the direct benefit of others. You might feel differently were this a question of fighting in an ideological war, such as the Vietnam War (versus, for example, the Second World War), but if the sacrifice of your life were guaranteed to save the lives of several others in a direct exchange, you would probably do it with or without an afterlife.
I don't think you'd "run for it" at all: I think you're just saying that for the purpose of discrediting the atheistic position (though why you'd do that is beyond me). What it does, though, is discredit your understanding of human morality and human emotion, as given to us by evolution. You're saying that only the prospect of an afterlife would prompt you to behave a certain way. In essence, you're saying that you have no morals. In addition, since you think you have no morals, you refuse to believe it possible for me to have morals, so you (inaccurately) predict that I would act amorally just like you think you'd act. However, I still bet that you do, in fact, have morals and that you would remain firmly clutched to that grenade even if doing so gave you a full revelation of the utter finality of death.
Cliff Walker
Positive Atheism Magazine
Six years of service to
people with no reason to believe
From: "Bill Skiba"
To: "Positive Atheism" <editor@positiveatheism.org>
Sent: October 17, 2001 6:56 PM
Subject: Re: Morals and atheism
Cliff
I think that I'm getting a better picture of your system of morality but I still have a few questions. First, if you could explain the method and "game rules" that you use to determine the choices you make, I feel I would have a better understanding. Also, if you could define what you mean by "greatest good" that would be a big help.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think this is your definition of morality: "each situation involves a choice: it is that choice, given each individual situation, that makes morality, not a list of dos and don'ts", and that choice is determined by using your "method" and applying your "game rules" to that particular situation. Applying this definition to the grenade scenario, I would assume that you believe that falling on the grenade it that situation would be the right thing to do. Your justification of this would be preventing harm to others. I would also assume that preventing harm to others in this situation would be considered good by you. If I am incorrect in my assumptions, please let me know.
I do believe that you are contradicting yourself by saying that you would not be "morally obligated" to fall on that grenade in that situation. The fact that you said: "I don't think I could live with myself having 'run for it,' thereby letting so many others come to harm when the simple act of falling on the grenade would have prevented all that", implies that you would have an obligation to yourself to take this course of action.
Your assumption that I believe you have no morals is incorrect. From the very first message I posted, I made it clear that I believe that atheists do have morals. My point was that I believe that an atheist could not justify his or her moral code. In fairness to you however, I will try not to make a judgment on your justification until I feel I have an adequate understanding of your view.
Here are couple of questions that might help me understand your position better: 1. Do you believe that certain specific choices are either always right or always wrong? If so or not, why? 2. In the grenade scenario, is the person throwing the grenade wrong for taking that action? If so or not, why? 3. Are the people responsible for hijacking those planes and directing them into the WTC wrong for taking that course of action? If so or not, why? 4. Could you explain what you mean by "do the most with what little life I get to live"?
Thanks,
Bill Skiba
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From: "Positive Atheism" <editor@positiveatheism.org>
To: "Bill Skiba"
Subject: Re: Morals and atheism
Date: October 17, 2001 9:35 PM
You keep asking me to describe my method and that is precisely what I don't think I can do. This is something that I have grown up with, that my parents got me started on, and I have not paid attentions to the nuts and bolts of it: I can only take a given situation and know how I would address it. Were I in a position to be able to perhaps market it (perhaps someone offered to let me write a book), then I could justify setting aside a few years of my life and studying the nuts and bolts of it.
As for "game rules," that is slang for a set of agreed-upon criteria for acting in certain situations. American law is a set of game rules, as is the "About" page of this Forum.
Correct me if I'm wrong,...etc.
I hate it when people enclose a set of their own words within a pair of quotation marks and then ask me if that is what I said. If you have any specific questions about what I actually said, I'd be glad to address them as best I can. For me to extract from within the quotation marks only those words which reflect what I actually said would be way too confusing for all of us.
I do believe that you are contradicting yourself by saying that you would not be "morally obligated" to fall on that grenade in that situation.
I would be compelled to do it because this is the way I am. It would be very painful for me to act contrary to the way that I am, the way that I believe is right, the way that coincides with what I see when I open my eyes and look at the world. I would sit there for hours on end wondering how I could have possibly done such a thing, it being so utterly unlike me to act that way. I don't act certain ways in order to avoid the pain of that dilemma, quite the contrary; I am not even thinking along those lines when I act. However, there are certain ways in which I can expect myself to act under certain stresses, and I cannot fathom myself making a decision to act otherwise. I am quite happy with myself and with how I respond to various situations. There is always room for improvement, but how I was raised and what I have groomed myself to be like and how nature chose to make me come out go along very well with my tastes.
If you want to call that "morality," I cannot stop you, but please don't tell anybody that "morality" is what I called it.
And if I am contradicting myself, so be it. Some things are more important than others, and as long as I get most of the important stuff right I'll be okay with myself.
I have no clue why you are sitting there picking apart my approach to life, particularly your zeal to try to label my thinking and stuff it into some prefabricated mold. That is what this entire conversation has felt like: you trying to get me to "admit" (or whatever) that I fit your preconceptions of something (an atheist, perhaps?).
I am hoping that this is merely some very odd way of having fun. I certainly hope that you aren't planning to use this to write some sort of representative "example" of how certain types of people think and act (such as atheists) because I promise you that I am not a typical anything. Everybody who has ever known me even casually has told me that they've never seen the likes of me before. People don't normally just up and tell someone, "Hey! I've never seen the likes of you before! Usually people fit into this or that main type, but I still don't quite know what makes you tick."
However, your tendency to want to categorize just about everything that has graced this conversation makes me nervous.
Cliff Walker
Positive Atheism Magazine
Six years of service to
people with no reason to believe
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